So here’s the deal. Growing up, I always wanted to have a big winter wedding. In fact, I went so far as to say I wanted an outdoor wedding, in the snow, wearing a giant ball gown with a (faux) fur coat and hand muff to keep me warm…you know, ride in on a sleigh and all that. Oh, I also said I would NEVER wear white—in fact, I wanted to wear a bright colour (possibly red?) and have the bridesmaids be the ones wearing white, just to keep things “interesting.” Oh boy, have things changed! Now, years later, my ideal wedding is an intimate affair, on a beach in the Caribbean with nothing but Mother Nature as the backdrop. Sigh, I can hardly wait to be there in May. Read the rest of this entry »
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Elopement Etiquette
Q: What is the etiquette for after you have eloped? We eloped, and since everyone’s been told it’s been a nightmare. We eloped because we are both very private people and did not want to stand in the front of a church full of people to say our sacred vows. How can we address our elopement to our family and friends? Read the rest of this entry »
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Dad Difficulties
Q: My father was never a big part of my life growing up; I rarely saw him. We’ve been a bit closer in recent years; however, I still do not plan on having him walk me down the aisle. Do I tell him this upfront, or wait and see if he asks? I don’t want to hurt his feelings. I plan on walking down the aisle by myself, so it’s not like I’m choosing someone else over him. Do you have any advice? Read the rest of this entry »
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Family Blessings
Q: I’m getting married in two months to a wonderful man who is not of the same ethnic background as my family. The problem is my grandmother is notoriously prejudiced and quite vocal about it. Nobody has had the courage to tell her that my future husband is of another ethnic background. I want grandma to be at my wedding, but I don’t want her to ruin the day. How should I deal with this? Read the rest of this entry »
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Guest Expectations
Q: I am really stuck! My one bridesmaid’s family has been close to my family for years, but due to a number of constraints my fiancé and I have decided only to invite my bridesmaid’s mother. I wanted to invite her brother, sister and their spouses, but at this point it’s not viable. How do I approach this subject with my bridesmaid? I believe she and her family are expecting an invitation, and I dread the thought of how awkward it will be when I see them next. Read the rest of this entry »
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advice » dear belle
Double Wedding
Q: My two brothers have recently gotten engaged to twin sisters, and decided to marry on the same day. I have helped with many of my friends’ weddings, but never a double wedding. I am looking for advice on how to proceed with the ceremony and the reception schedule. Should they all go down the aisle together or have separate ceremonies? Should they have their own first dances? Have the same cake-cutting ceremony? Read the rest of this entry »
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Wedding Whoa!
Q: No one seems excited about our engagement. We have been together for eight years and have constantly heard “When are you two getting married?” Now that we’re engaged, no one is excited. This attitude I am getting is putting a damper on my plans! I am wondering if we should do this or not? Read the rest of this entry »

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