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OOTs, AHRs & RSVPs—oh my!
So unless you are also planning a destination wedding, you’re probably wondering what the heck an OOT or AHR is—I myself hadn’t heard of either until we started planning our wedding last year. OOT is the abbreviation for basically the best loot bags ever—the Out Of Town bags, which we’ll be giving out to all of our guests in Jamaica. AHR is the abbreviation for the big party we’re planning right now—the At Home Reception.
So first, the OOTs! I would just like to say, if you’re one of our guests coming to Jamaica—PLEASE STOP READING NOW! I’m serious, don’t read on! Ang and Chrissy, I’m talking to you ;) Ok just kidding, I won’t give away all the secret jems that will be hidden in each bag, but I’ll tell you that every guest will be greeted in their rooms upon arrival with a beach bag full of goodies to help them survive the week and have the most fun possible in Jamaica! Some examples of things that are usually included in the OOTs are “hangover survival kits,” (that include things like Aspirin and Tums) basic necessities like extra sunscreen and bug repellant and fun things like card games, puzzle books and other things to pass your time on the beach. Each bag will also come with a handwritten note to the guest welcoming them to our wedding week in paradise!
Now, for our AHR, Karlo and I had to decide if we wanted to hold the Vancouver party right away after we got back from Jamaica, or if we were going to wait a bit until the dust settled, so to speak. Most destination brides I chatted with were having their AHRs right away, though some did decide to wait a while (4 to 6 months) after their trip to have theirs. In the end, we decided to have ours pretty quickly after we get back—we’re getting back on May 31st and our AHR is two and a half weeks later on June 18th. We decided to have the party right away because we really just can’t wait to party with all of our friends and family! Our AHR is going to be an extension of our trip, with the Island vibe infused into every aspect of the party—Caribbean food, reggae music and brightly coloured decorations will bring a bit of Jamaica back to Vancouver with us!
I have to admit, apart from the wedding ceremony itself, the part of the festivities that I am most looking forward to is the dance portion of the AHR—I can’t wait to boogie on down with all our people! What part of your big day are you most excited about?
a) Saying your vows
b) The big feast!
c) Dancing your butt off
d) All of the above
For our AHR invitations we sent out postcards, to keep with the travel theme. Karlo designed them to match our wedding website…
Tags: at home party, blogger search, destination wedding, jamaica, out of town bags, reception, rsvp, vancouver
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I loved my OOT and can’t wait for the AHR. And of course it’s all about the DANCE FLOOR!
Congratulations in advance!!
And your postcard maps are adorable!!!
I have to say,…. I’m excited for it all! lol
Karlo’s design is so cute – great postcards! I’ve seen the OOT bags once I started searching the internet for everything wedding related; who wouldn’t love an adult version of a loot bag?
May you have the greatest of weather on your wedding day and advanced congratulations to you and Karlo!
As for what I’m most excited about for our wedding day? All the sweet stolen moments between Mark and I, the tears of joy, the food, the hilarity, the gong show, the dancing, FINALLY living together…ok I’m just plain excited for EVERYTHING :).
D) I’m excited for it all!
What a great way to start the summer!! Your postcards are so cute too. I do love a theme party – it sounds like yours is going to be a blast! And I just realised you are getting married in FIVE DAYS, so I will wish you all the best, and congrats in advance!! :)