The concept of eloping has changed drastically over time. Nowadays eloping includes destination weddings, city hall ceremonies or intimate gatherings—basically anything outside of your "traditional" wedding. One benefit of having a celebration such as this is that it doesn't necessarily have to take as long to plan or cost as much to put together. Wedding expert and event planner David Vallee, who has appeared on Rich Bride, Poor Bride, knows all about saving. Weddingbells had a chance to chat with him recently, and he shared his tips and tricks for getting what you want quickly and affordably whether you're eloping or not.
1. Use Online Resources and Classifieds
Online listings, like those found on kijiji.ca and here at weddingbells.ca, can help speed up your planning process, since you have access to tons of information at your fingertips 24/7. The more research you conduct, the more likely you'll score a deal.
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2. Make a Budget
Creating a budget and understanding your limits is a key part to saving on your wedding. After you and your partner have agreed to the final amount, it's up to you to keep track of your expenses along the way.
Try our budget tool.
3. Keep It Personal
Magazines and websites are a great place to get inspired, says Vallee. But instead of copying those looks exactly, put a personal spin on it. Not only will it be easier, but less expensive, too.
Take a look at our gown galleries for inspiration.
4. Invest in What's Important to You
For every couple this is different. You may have a dedicated amount set aside for your gown, or have decided to splurge on photography. Whatever it may be, it's your decision and it's your day, so invest in the details that are important to you.
Find out how to cut costs without sacrificing your W-day style.
5. Enjoy It
While paying attention to the details will help keep you on budget, explains Vallee, you have to be prepared for the unexpected. Instead of stressing out when issues arise, take a deep breath, relax and just enjoy the process. It will all come together in the end.
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Posted by Catherine on July 27, 2009 at 9:34 a.m.
What is the etiquette for after you have eloped? We eloped on July 8th and it seems like its been a nightmare since everyone's been told. The main reason we eloped was to avoid the garbage thats occuring right now. The most life changing event and the In-Laws all act as though its nothing at all. Shouldn't they be sending a card, at the very least, of congratulations????
Another reason we eloped, is we are both very private kind of people and did not want to stand in the front of a church full of people to say our sacred vows.
People seem to forget a wedding is for the bride and groom, not for them.
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