The Busy Groom

Don't let your mister shy away from wedding planning. Here are 11 easy ways to get him involved. By Teresa Morgado

Most guys don’t start thinking about their weddings at a young age, so when the big day comes, they don’t fret about the details that seem so important to us ladies. Although some brides are more than happy to take the reins on planning, others may want their fiancés to help out, only to find they are less than enthusiastic! Here are a few suggestions on how to get your groom more involved with planning:

• Ask for his help. Since wedding plans tend to be taken on by the bride, some grooms don’t know they are allowed to help out.
• Define specific tasks for him. He will be more inclined to get things done if he knows exactly what his responsibilities are. Make sure these tasks are things he will be interested in doing. Guys don’t care much about flowers and linens so assign him tasks that he will want to do.
• Ask him what he wants to see at the wedding. Incorporating his tastes and asking his opinion will make him want to participate more.
• Let him take on the responsibility of organizing his groomsmen. This includes: picking their attire, letting them know when and where to be, and talking to them about speeches or any other special responsibilities they will have.
• Have him choose the transportation. He will love the chance to choose which exotic car he will drive around in all day.
• Give him a pen. When sending out invites or thank-you cards get him to fill out those being sent to his guests.
• Tell him to play bartender. A lot of people have a specialty drink made up for their wedding. Your groom can work with a mixologist to come up with your signature drink.
• Let him get his groove on. Music is an essential part of any wedding reception. Have your groom scope out different DJs and choose which one best suits your wedding style.
• Boys and toys. Gift registries aren’t just for china and towels anymore. You can register for bar sets and electronics—something your groom may want to pick out.
• Dress rehearsal. If you’re going the traditional route and his family is paying for the rehearsal dinner, let him plan the whole thing.
• Let him plan the honeymoon. There aren’t too many tiny details to consider, and he’ll enjoy thinking about a getaway for just the two of you.   

Get more ideas on how to keep the planning process fun.

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