When it's number two -- or beyond -- for either one of you, it can be a lot easier to say "been-there-done-that" and try something completely different for your wedding.
When remarrying couples plan a new marriage, they usually go into it with a stronger sense of their own style and priorities than the first time around. And the idea of reviving all the pomp and ceremony of a large, formal wedding may not be appealing, even if you do want to include friends and family to celebrate in your new union.
So, here's a great opportunity to plan an event that's more personal, more intimate, even more romantic than many first weddings, in an atmosphere that reflects your (hopefully) more confident personalities. With a nod to the classic rules of wedding etiquette, your celebration can be joyful and second-to-none. Here are a few suggestions for making your celebration unique and personal:
- Get married in a place you're sentimental about. Choose a park or private garden, an honoured relative's parlour or patio, or a private enclave in a favourite hotel or resort.
- Couples who want a truly spontaneous bash might consider springing their ceremony on unsuspecting guests at a pool party, costume affair or barbecue. It's a great way to celebrate if you're concerned about not obliging guests to bring gifts or make a fuss.
- If you have children, consider whisking your loved ones away to a vacation spot, combining wedding, reception and holiday in one unforgettable "family-moon." Ask your travel agent about the variety of wedding packages (often offered by resorts and hotels) available in Canada, the Caribbean, Hawaii, Bermuda, Europe or the U.S.
- For a more intimate celebration, forgo the processional and recessional and ask guests to simply gather around the two of you and the officiator.
- Remarrying romantics often indulge in reception traditions such as the receiving line, cake-cutting, first dance, toasts and grand exit, but prefer to dispense with first-time novelties like the tiny bride-and-groom cake topper, bouquet toss and confetti.
